Indians talking sex, as they say, “knowing is half the battle”. Learn what is desirable in the bedroom and how it can help you to spice things up with your partner. Women are no different from men when it comes to sexual prowess, they just need the right partner to unlock them from their day-to-day cage?
Reading stories like the Mahabharata and looking the erotic temple carvings, it’s quite clear that Indian women were the shizzle in the sack! Women want to truly enjoy their bodies, those gorgeous bodies that God created. Are you listening?
“Enticing, alluring foreplay…”
Dr Urjita Kulkarni is an author and Homoeopathic consultant (sexology and psychiatry), and hosts a radio show on the subject on Vividh Bharati.
What women want in bed, irrespective of era and race is to explore. Different positions (maybe how some Kama Sutra postures really work!). Kinky stuff (BDSM), role-playing. Enticing, alluring foreplay. Threesomes. Sex in different places in different situations. Accompanied by a variety of drinks and music (strawberries, cream and champagne can’t be fun every time!).
The best is sex in an open marriage/relationship; enjoying other partners without hesitation. Still, she’d adore a partner who, after all the action, walks her to her car and messages saying he had a great time. “Women want to be able to say ‘yes’ or ‘No’ and mean it”
“Women want to be able to say ‘yes’ or ‘No’ and mean it”
The title of this piece reminds me of something I heard once: ‘Woman on top – in the boardroom and in the bedroom’. Which doesn’t mean women don’t like the missionary position, but that they want to be the decision makers in the bedroom as well as in their organisations.
Women want to decide when, where, with whom and for how long. They want to be able to say ‘yes’ when they mean it, and ‘no’ when they mean it.
Indians & a favourite position in bed
“We want mind games and orgasms”
The modern Indian woman wants the full eight-course meal! From mind games to wooing to knowing what an orgasm feels like! Anyone who thinks a woman’s G spot is down there has a thing coming: it’s all in the ‘head’ baby!
“Tease, role play, get some toys”
Talk turns us on. And I don’t mean post-coital cuddle conversations – though those help too. Let’s face it, we know there is a movie going on in your head with stereophonic sound. Share that out loud. Whisper, groan, roar, moan, shout, sing – we want to hear it all. What you want to do, where you want to do it and how you’re going to do it. Use your imagination.
Sex can be awkward. Not like in the books. There are strange sounds, positions and things go out of control. Laugh about it. Crack a joke. The unexpectedness of it is fun and exciting! Tease, role play, get some toys. Why so serious?
Share the lead. Let me take charge, make the first move, dominate, be the one in power (yes, cuffs and chains too!) – and then swap roles. Match me, meet me where I am and then raise the bar.
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