Indian Couples Speaking Love, Lust & Sex

If you have experienced being in love and being one half of a couple at any point, this is the place for you!

Experiencing lust is key to discovering the true meaning of love but can the emotions lust and love exist in a healthy relationship?

Sex and lust has mostly been considered a dirty, low frequency word by most and yet it is the cardinal passage to cross on our journey to understanding love. It has often been described as a raw emotion without any discipline, but love, it is refined.

Dating older Indian women: It’s fascinating how some men are drawn to and attract only older woman for dating. A May-December match can be a big hit and here is something to ponder.

Quality time is vital for all Indian couples and if you need a small change from the usual, why don’t you try something from the list of ‘fun things to do with spouse’ that we’ve compiled for you!

Over the course of a relationship, you get used to your partner’s little quirks, what turns him on and how dedicated he is to your needs. And even though women also care about pleasure of the flesh, having sex caters to the carnal pleasure while making love believes in the saying – two souls merging into one. It was indeed like that when you were so in love; hard core sex felt like universe exploding and you and your man becoming one in a cosmo-orgasmic blow.

Is it okay to ask a girl about her past relationships?

Tricky, tricky, tricky this one! So many relationships and even marriages have been rocked because of this question. Even though it’s natural for men, and even women, to be curious about their partner’s past, real trouble arises when they can’t handle the information that comes forth. So here are some pointers you need to keep in mind if you’re going to pop this kind of question!

In every marriage, the two people involved can always have or find something of the other to feel resentful about. Carrying unresolved resentment in the heart, mind and marriage over long periods of time can spell doom for the marriage.

Indian Spice is the couple-relationship destination for South African Indians…the pains and pleasures, the anxieties and comforts, the craziness and calm. The inevitable distance between two people in love, the restless neediness of love.

The attempt to understand and constantly adjust to the conflicting need for both excitement and security – to be happy and to grow, and yet know that somehow one always comes at the cost of the other. This is about reconciling with the fact that closeness between two people in love will inevitably ebb and flow. The stories of love and sex, couple relationships, marriage advice that you will find here on Indian Spice is an attempt to help make peace with these aspects of couple relationships through real-life stories.

A non-judgmental space for all kinds of perspectives and approaches to couple relationships.

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