Sonali Bendre: My son is my source of strength fighting cancer

Sonali Bendre is fighting cancer, with her family standing strong by her side, and a smile on her face. She recently shared a post on Instagram with her son, Ranveer.

The actor had recently cut her hair short, and now it is even shorter, presumably in preparation for chemotherapy. She took to social media to share a picture with her son. The actor made a case for involving kids, educating them and letting them in on the nature of the illness of near ones. She mentioned how she derives her strength from her son.

 

From the moment he was born 12 years, 11 months and 8 days ago, my amazing @rockbehl took ownership of my heart. From then on, his happiness and wellbeing have been the centre of anything @goldiebehl and I ever did. And so, when the Big C reared its ugly head, our biggest dilemma was what and how we were going to tell him. As much as we wanted to protect him, we knew it was important to tell him the full facts. We’ve always been open and honest with him and this time it wasn’t going to be different. He took the news so maturely… and instantly became a source of strength and positivity for me. In some situations now, he even reverses roles and takes on being the parent, reminding me of things I need to do! I believe that it’s imperative to keep kids involved in a situation like this. They are a lot more resilient than we give them credit for. It’s important to spend time with them and include them, rather than make them wait on the side-lines, not being told yet instinctively knowing everything. In our effort to protect them from the pain and realities of life, we might end up doing the opposite. I’m spending time with Ranveer right now, while he’s on summer vacation. His madness and shenanigans help me #SwitchOnTheSunshine. And today, we derive strength from each other #OneDayAtATime

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Sonali reveals how her son’s “madness and shenanigans” helped her “switch on the sunshine” at this difficult time.

“From the moment he was born 12 years, 11 months and 8 days ago, my amazing @rockbehl took ownership of my heart. From then on, his happiness and well-being have been the centre of anything @goldiebehl and I ever did. And so, when the Big C reared its ugly head, our biggest dilemma was what and how we were going to tell him.” – Sonali Bendre via Instagram.

Sonali shares that rather than trying to protect her son, she and husband Goldie Behl decided to be honest with him.

“I believe that it’s imperative to keep kids involved in a situation like this. They are a lot more resilient than we give them credit for. It’s important to spend time with them and include them, rather than make them wait on the side-lines, not being told yet instinctively knowing everything. In our effort to protect them from the pain and realities of life, we might end up doing the opposite.” Sonali Bendre


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